Showing posts with label college. Show all posts
Showing posts with label college. Show all posts

Thursday, June 13, 2013

He Did It!

It's that time of year: graduations.  But this time, it's ours - our boy ... young man, actually ... has graduated from high school.  In some ways, it seems like it went by so quickly, and in other ways, it has been so, so long.  The past month has been endless, and the work was supposed to have been finished at least five weeks ago.  Maybe that's why it has been sooo endless.

Of course, the unfinished work was in English.  Math has never been a problem for my boy.  Engineering has been his place to shine this year, confirming for him, and for us, the correctness of his decision to enter an engineering program in the fall. But English?  Oh dear.

His teacher has been unbelievable - working with him at every turn; modifying assignments; meeting with him; clarifying things if they weren't clear; re-modifying.  This last assignment wasn't even an essay, so I (foolishly, apparently) thought it wouldn't be a big deal.  Two weeks later, I was ready to pull all my hair out of my head.  My boy doesn't let anything disturb his "ultimate mellow."  And he'll sit endlessly in front of the computer and do ... nothing.  Sigh.

Finally, he got the initial piece done.  But he hadn't gotten some information that he wanted to use.  We had persuaded him that getting this in, while waiting for the information, was essential.  And that when/if he got the information, he could add the additional piece, and it should be just a little addendum.

Hah!

The new information came.  He sat in front of the computer for over a week, and did ... nothing.  I reminded him that the final grades had to be submitted.  He acknowledged the truth of what I said, and did ... nothing.  Finally, finally, finally, after about ten days, he made the changes.  Once he started actually working, it probably wasn't more than a couple of hours worth of work (I'm guessing here, because I don't know how involved PowerPoint is, at the level he uses it).

The payoff: the teacher LOVED it!  My boy is actually very skilled at this kind of technology.  He uses it in ways that the average high school student, even in this age of "all the kids do this stuff," does not.  I'm very happy, and very proud.

And my boy graduated from high school, surrounded by hundreds of his "peers," most of whom he has never met, and he doesn't know, and who don't know him.  He sat appropriately (for the most part) and listened to endless speeches, talking about how they all came into the school four years ago (when this was his first and only year at the school), and shared all these experiences (about which he had no knowledge), yet he was part of them.  He loved throwing his cap at the end, and remembered to save his tassel first.  He glowed.  

And his transcript will show that he graduated from our local high school, with a respectable GPA, passing all his courses (this was not always a given), and having taken rigorous college preparatory senior year classes.  He is justifiably proud of himself.  And next year, he is preparing to enter his next phase: studying engineering at a four year university!  Wow!

Wednesday, December 26, 2012

It's That College Time of Year

We really need to get better at this.  "We" being my husband and me;  "this" being responding to acceptances to college.  It should be easy, right?  "Wow, you got in!  That's great!  Congratulations!"  It seems so easy.  But in our house, like everything else, it doesn't seem to go the way one would expect.

First, you'd think that since our boy who is applying is our third child, we'd have had some significant practice.  

Nope.

Child #1 only sort-of applied, and to only one school, very late, and it was a school that pretty much accepted anyone who was graduating from high school.  So, there wasn't much practice there.

Child #2 applied for real, and we were very happy with his acceptance, but he applied to only one school, and when he got his acceptance, decided he wasn't going to bother with any more applications.

So on to Child #3.  One day, he got an envelope from a school we knew he was planning to apply to.  "Did you tell them you wanted more information?"  "Not exactly."  He opens the envelope, waves a folder that says "Congratulations," and says, "I guess I got in."  "Wait, wait, did you apply there?"  "Yes."  "When?"  "About two weeks ago."  "Um, you never mentioned it.  Well, congratulations!!!"

Sigh.  OK.  Not exactly how the first acceptance is supposed to go, but it's going to get better, right?  Wrong.

"I just got an email congratulating me on being accepted to X University."  

"Was it an acceptance email, or was it an email that assumed you'd already gotten a letter?"

"It assumed I'd gotten a letter."

"Well, congratulations, assuming you've been accepted!"

"Thanks.  I guess."

He looks almost as confused as I feel.


"Um, didn't you just apply there two days ago?"  I know, that's not  appropriate, but how can someone get accepted in two days? I mean, really!

Well, no, he says, it's been a bit longer than that.  Maybe a week.  

I realize I'm old, but a week?

He has a few more applications out.  I'm hoping that he gets some acceptances the old-fashioned way - the thick envelope in the mail, when we already know he applied.  

But of course, this is the good stuff, and I am totally not complaining!  Maybe he'll get the thick envelope in the mail today!